Shilaie S. Gipaya
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Help Your People Stop Struggling and Start Performing—By Giving Them What They've Been Missing: Clarity on Their Wiring
Most organizations invest heavily in training, coaching, and development programs, yet the same problems keep showing up: low productivity, burnout, disengagement, and turnover.
Here's why:
Your people have been taught to focus and go straight to Step 2 (strategies, systems, business models) before they understand Step 1: their wiring.
Without knowing how they're naturally designed to work, they force themselves into approaches that don't fit—then blame themselves when things don't work.
Shilaie Gipaya delivers a message that changes everything. She helps audiences discover their wiring FIRST—so they can finally build careers and businesses that work WITH them, not against them.
Through engaging storytelling, real-world insights, and practical frameworks, Shilaie shows your people how to stop forcing success and start aligning with how they're actually wired to thrive.
Ideal For:
✅ Real estate brokerages – Help agents produce more, burn out less, and stay in the industry longer
✅ Associations (NAR, CBA, etc.) – Retain members by giving them clarity on how to build businesses that fit their wiring
✅ Corporate events (high-autonomy roles) – Reduce disengagement and increase productivity without restructuring roles
✅ Government contractors – Equip teams with the clarity they need to deliver results efficiently
The Forgotten Starting Point:
Why Knowing Your Wiring Changes Everything
Ideal for: Real estate brokerages, associations, corporate teams, government contractors
The Problem: Your people are working hard, following proven systems, and investing in training but they're still struggling. Productivity is down. Burnout is up. Turnover is costing you talent and money.
The Real Issue: They skipped Step 1. They never stopped to ask: "How am I actually wired to work?" Instead, they jumped straight to strategies and systems built for someone else's wiring and blamed themselves when those systems didn't fit.
What Audiences Learn:
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Why hard work, discipline, and grit aren't enough if you're working against your wiring
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The 3 core elements of wiring that determine how you work best, learn best, and solve problems
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How to evaluate any program, strategy, or business model against YOUR wiring (so you stop forcing what doesn't fit)
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The first step to building a career or business that actually works for you
What Audiences Walk Away With:
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Clarity on why they've been struggling (it's not lack of effort—it's misalignment)
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A new framework for making decisions that fit their wiring
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Relief from the shame of "not having what it takes"
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The starting point they've been missing
The Truth About Burnout: Why It’s Not About Overwork,
But About Misalignment
Ideal for: Real estate brokerages, corporate HR teams, associations, leadership development programs
The Problem: Burnout is at an all-time high. Your people are exhausted, disengaged, and underperforming. You've tried wellness programs, time management training, and motivational speakers—but nothing sticks.
The Real Issue: Burnout isn't caused by working too much. It's caused by working in ways that go against your wiring. Some people thrive under pressure. Others burn out. The difference? Alignment.
What Audiences Learn:
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Why some people thrive in roles where others burn out (it's about wiring, not work ethic)
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How misalignment drains energy faster than long hours ever could
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The role of alignment in employee retention, engagement, and business sustainability
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How to identify misalignment before it leads to burnout or turnover
What Audiences Walk Away With:
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A new understanding of what actually causes burnout (and how to prevent it)
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Practical tools to assess alignment in their current roles
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Permission to stop forcing approaches that don't fit their wiring
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A roadmap for sustainable success
The Alignment Advantage: How Entrepreneurs & Leaders
Can Unlock Natural Success
✅ Ideal for: Entrepreneurs, business owners, leadership teams, professionals in career transition
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Success isn’t just about strategy—it’s about alignment.
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Too many entrepreneurs and professionals push themselves toward goals that don’t fit who they truly are—leading to burnout, frustration, and self-doubt.
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In this engaging and interactive session, we’ll cover:
✔ The 3 components of alignment—and why they determine long-term success.
✔ How forcing success vs. natural success creates burnout.
✔ How to build a business or career that works with your strengths, not against them.
✔ How leaders and entrepreneurs can create sustainable success through alignment.
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AngaLee Alexander
Business and Finance Officer
“Shilaie presented a wonderful speech on this very topic and her message has remained with me. She is on her way to spreading her message loud and clear as she walks her talk every day."
Cathleen Draper
Toastmasters
"Shilaie is an engaging, enthusiastic, and energetic speaker who connects well with her audience."
Suzanne Fox
President, Lynnwood Toastmasters
"Shilaie is hardworking, responsible, and conscientious. She is a talented public speaker: articulate, poised, and confident."
Todd Karam
Range Properties LLC
"Shilaie was not only very professional but very personal. She was clear with her communication and was key to staying on schedule. We hope to have the opportunity to work with Shilaie again in the near future"